Kenchi’s corner is rated 18+ and contains material of often explicit sexual nature for mature readers only. Daily posts will seek to educate and help to improve sexual relations amongst couples, both married and otherwise. Views and opinions on the various facets of such relationships are the authors alone and said author makes no claims to being an expert or relationship counsellor. Sift through, pick whatever works for you and discard what’s left at your own discretion. Cheers.
Kenchi.
First off, if you’re one of the last few neanderthals who still have reservations about the merits of eating pussy, find it degrading, disgusting or dirty then you’re at the wrong place. Keep it moving bruv. Gracias amigos. You will not be missed much.
Still here? My nicccccuhhhh!
Oui oui. So as every self-respecting man knows, or should know by now, pleasing your woman has to be right there at the summit of your daily to-do list. Pleasurable, (or hehehe bomb), sex should be high on your priority of ways to keep your woman satisfied and purring like a well-fed kitten. And few things give a woman more pleasure than good oral sex.
DO NOT imitate the porn stars. All that carnivorous munching on pussy is all kinds of wrong. She’s starring in a f*ck film fer crying out loud, with the harsh lights and the several cameras and film crew all in attendance. It’s a movie after all said and done. Acting. Ignore the moans and screams of pleasure. Shortie is getting paid quite a lot to act. And that is what she’s doing.
This is how to eat the box proper.
Whether as the climax of foreplay (see what I did there?) or just being a considerate lover and making sure she gets her own orgasm after you’ve had yours, giving bomb head is quite simple and enjoyable for most women.
For starters, you’ve gotta be comfortable with putting your lips and tongue on pussy. Pussy is actually self cleaning and as long as she isn’t unhygienic, in which case why are you even with an unhygienic woman compadre, then get in there!
Use your tongue and lips. No teeth. Saliva is good. Not too much though. Slobbering all over the cooch is just nasty. Intermittently stop to slurp up excess spit and moistness. Most of it is you anyways bruv.
By now any knowledgable man should have a pretty good idea where the clit is. Try not to focus only on it though. In my experience of watching women masturbate to orgasm they usually just stimulate the area around the clit. The entire region. Take a cue from that.
Flicking your tongue over the clit and the area immediately surrounding it is the key. The tongue is an awesome equipment. It’s just the right kind of towel-like rough and warm that it gets the job done almost as well as any vibrator. Even better in a significant number of cases. Flick, lip and lap the vulva and clitoris slowly. If she’s lying on her back then while you do this you ought to reach forward under her upraised laps and toy with her nipples. In my experience some women require nipple action at the same time as tongue fucking in other to reach an orgasm or to quicken it.
Patience is of the utmost importance. Some women cum pretty fast while others may require up to 15 or more minutes of uninterrupted head to achieve orgasm. The same woman can cum fast at one time and take far longer at another time. There’s no cause to hurry. Remember you love her and want to please her and give her the best of times in bed. Another thing you need to know is, unlike men, the myriad sensations leading up to orgasm are just as awesome for a woman as the end product of a leg shaking, belly quivering, head scratching orgasm. If she hasn’t cum yet then you’re still pleasing her nevertheless. Keep patiently doing what you’re doing.
Go slow, only up the tempo when she gives you signs to. The signs? Simple. increasingly deeper and frantic moans. Raising her belly and lower parts up to meet your lips. Breathing harder. These are some of the signs to watch for. Look out for em patiently. They will come.
Some women come close to orgasm then relapse. This is normal. In my opinion it’s not even bad at all, just means when she does get the orgasm it will in all likelihood be even more earth shattering. She almost gets there, then loses it, then gets close again, and loses it. That’s alright. Whisper something sweet like ‘babe you will get there, I’m enjoying eating your wonderful pussy, I’m not rushing off anywhere, when it comes at last it will be so worth the time it’s taking’
When she gets real close to orgasm you will know.
About 2 to 3 minutes before a woman cums the taste of her pussy juices actually changes, it gets a lil bit sweeter. If you’ve been eating that pussy proper you would have tasted these juices already so you’ll notice when it changes. At that same time she will likely be writhing, moaning harder and expelling her breath intermittently. Probably clutching on your head or the sheets or pillows too. She’ll probably be licking her lips cus they’ve gone dry. These are sure fire signs of approaching orgasmic pleasure. That’s when you should double your ministrations on the clit itself. Try to maintain a rhythm at this time, no interruptions if you want her to cum and not lose it before she reaches a climax.
Another awesome way of giving head is letting her ride your face. Some women aren’t comfortable with this at first cus they worry you’ll find it weird or submissive having the pussy all over your face and mouth. Show her it’s alright and you actually like it and 9 times out of 10 she will quite quickly get into the groove of it. The advantage of this style is that she will get to control what tongue action you give her. She’ll position the box on your lips just how she is enjoying it the most and rocking back and forth she will bring herself to orgasm on your lips herself. It’s a little uncomfortable for you because you could feel a tad smothered with her thighs wrapped around you, but long as you try to come up for air every once in a while you’ll be fine and it’s worth it, believe me. Holding your breath for 2 to 3 minutes at a time won’t kill you. But she’ll love and appreciate you for it. Cheers.
Kenchi.
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